Lexi’s teaching style is interactive and loaded with handouts and resources to take home. She prefers to be led by the audience and the questions they have, tailoring each workshop to the people in the room.

You were delightful and easy to approach!

Consent & negotiation 101.

Taught at Birmingham Fetish Weekend 2025, Pride in Gloucester 2025.

An ideal class for absolute beginners which covers the very basics of consent and negotiation including:

  • What is consent.
  • Models of consent.
  • What to do when someone ignores a “no.”
  • Vetting.
  • Why we negotiate.
  • What to include in negotiation.
  • Tools for negotiation.
  • Basic communication skills.
 
What people said about this class:
a smallish room with a wooden floor and black panelled walls filled with black chairs, some which have handouts on them.

This workshop was very good! The resources included were excellent, and it provided a very informative overview with significant points covered in a way that was accessible for newbies.

Definitely would recommend, have gone over it and showed the sheets to a friend that couldn't be there and used the sheets to help understand each other better 😄

Was really beneficial, particularly would recommend to newer people.

Negotiation.

Taught at KinkFest 2025, Consent Weekend 2025, and CiNK.

An in depth workshop on negotiation including interactive activities to engage the audience and turn academic ideas into practical skills that have really sunk in.

This workshop includes negotiation considerations for neurodivergent, disabled, and chronically ill kinksters.