Lexi’s teaching style is interactive and loaded with handouts and resources to take home. She prefers to be led by the audience and the questions they have, tailoring each workshop to the people in the room.

Consent & negotiation 101.

Taught at Birmingham Fetish Weekend 2025, Pride in Gloucester 2025.

An ideal class for absolute beginners which covers the very basics of consent and negotiation including:

  • What is consent.
  • Models of consent.
  • What to do when someone ignores a “no.”
  • Vetting.
  • Why we negotiate.
  • What to include in negotiation.
  • Tools for negotiation.
  • Basic communication skills.
 
What people said about this class:
a smallish room with a wooden floor and black panelled walls filled with black chairs, some which have handouts on them.

Negotiation.

Taught at KinkFest 2025, Consent Weekend 2025, and CiNK.

An in depth workshop on negotiation including interactive activities to engage the audience and turn academic ideas into practical skills that have really sunk in.

This workshop includes negotiation considerations for neurodivergent, disabled, and chronically ill kinksters.